Make routines short, visible, repeatable
Use 3–6 step visual routines placed where transitions happen. Keep language simple and pair each step with a timer.
Co-regulation beats punishment
When a child escalates, co-regulation (calm presence, naming feelings, offering small choices) helps more than punishment. Prepare a practiced short script you can use when you’re triggered.
Quick start actions
- Create one visual routine for a daily transition.
- Schedule a five-minute micro-session for household maintenance.
- Draft a co-regulation script you’ll use when triggered.